Making the most of now
Have you ever wished you could fast forward to the next stage in your life because, if you could, you’d be so much happier?
If you could just get those exams out of the way, you’d be happy in the perfect job … you’ll pay off those debts when you get your promotion, and everything will be fine … if only you could find a partner, or spend more time with your spouse when your children start school, life would be just perfect…
Everybody looks ahead; it’s only natural. But have you ever stopped to think – if you never look where you are treading now, you could easily stumble and fall? Are you making the most of opportunities that arise day by day? It’s like the old saying: ‘Carpe Diem’ – ‘Seize the Day’.
Two watches
Acclaimed actor Peter O’Toole was once asked why he wears two watches. He replied, “Life is too short to waste precious seconds glancing at the wrong wrist.” Every second of life is there to be treasured.
Don’t fall into the trap of wishing your life away. Your job could be something you’ll really miss in your old age; your singleness could give you some wonderful times with friends while you are not tied down; children eventually grow up and leave the nest… whatever your situation, don’t wish time away.
Being comfortable with the present
Equally, it could be your past, not your future, which is holding you back from making the most of the present. Whilst some painful experiences stay with us forever, and the sadness, loss or regret you feel might not change over time, it is possible for you to change. It is also possible for you to grow and allow the experience to shape you, so that you can be comfortable with your present.
For some, it may mean seeking help – remember that asking for help is not a weakness. For others, it might be helpful to focus on the good things you have now – it could be as simple as a good friend, your family, your health, or your home.
The old cliché is true: the grass may be greener on the other side, but it still needs to be mown. Don’t blind yourself to your future, or spend your whole life in the past, but be sure to take stock of your present – you could be missing out on some treasured moments
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